The friction is real—over bathrooms, over sports, over who belongs in lesbian bars, over who gets to call themselves "gay." But the binding agent is stronger: the shared experience of being told you are wrong, disordered, or sinful for loving who you love and being who you are.
It is vital to recognize that "transgender community" is not a monolith, nor is "LGBTQ culture." To be a trans gay man is a different lived experience than being a trans lesbian, which is different from being a non-binary asexual person. xtremeshemale.com