Greenlights - Matthew Mcconaughey < Web >

The book revolves around a traffic light metaphor for life's experiences:

We think we are looking for a clear path. McConaughey argues we should be looking for the friction. Because friction leaves a mark. And marks, as he would say with that wolfish grin, are how you know you aren't a ghost drifting through the intersection—you are the driver. Greenlights - Matthew McConaughey